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by Victoria
WEDNESDAY, JULY 27, 2011

Biggest Obstacle: Yourself

If your biggest obstacle is yourself, get over it; get over yourself.

You can give yourself permission to stop taking things personally, or even too seriously. LaunchYou can enjoy meaningful business relationships and personal relationships and realize where they stop and start.
When you fully understand that you are not more than one thing to anyone in any given moment—sister, best friend, spouse, boss or daughter—it frees you to focus on being that one thing, in its entirety; nothing more, nothing less. You are not all things to all people; stop acting like you have to be. Incredibly, if you don’t subconsciously offer it, they won’t expect it.

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POSTED BY VICTORIA AT 05:18 PM

7 comments

Ingrid Geronimo (almost 2 years ago)

This is so awesome and as always, just in time for me and where I'm at and where I'm trying to move to. Thanks so much Victoria. You continue to be a source of inspiration for me. :)
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Ingrid Cheng (almost 2 years ago)

So true. Be happy & grateful.
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Kimberly Larkins (almost 2 years ago)

Thank you for making this so clear. I needed this clarity to to help me focus. Thanks so much!
Anita Spring (almost 2 years ago)

Thank you Victoria!

Deborah Bolden (almost 2 years ago)

Awesome, thank you! I think it goes with us trying to be super women in everything we do. I realize now I do try to be all things to all people. I have recently cut back and it's funny, no one has noticed! So why am I stressing myself out? Good question!
Lorene Collier Purcy (almost 2 years ago)

Love it...happy to say that WAS me...but now anymore!
Julie Barnes (over 1 year ago)

So true! Thank you for a lovely post Victoria!