by Lorraine Russo,
Ladies Who Launch member, Suffolk County, NY
One of the first steps in taking control of your wardrobe is to organize your closet. This may sound painful to some, but it will alleviate the angst of opening your closet door in the morning and feeling overwhelmed. Plus, once it’s done, you’ll feel better and know what clothes you have to build your (new and improved) wardrobe around.
And you can make it fun! If you have a friend with a sense of style you admire, invite them over. Have food and drinks on hand. You’ll be surprised by how enjoyable it can be.
Most of us don’t go through our closets on a regular basis, and some of us don’t even do it at the beginning of each season. Yet we all know the feeling of standing in front of an open closet door in the morning and thinking, “I have nothing to wear.” If you don’t eliminate the items you no longer wear, it looks as though you have more to choose from than you really do. There is nothing more distracting than a closet full of clothes that are never worn.
Your first step is to pull everything out and separate it into two categories: what you wear and what you don’t. Separate these items into the subcategories below. You need to determine why you don’t wear each item:
1. It doesn’t fit
2. It looks outdated
3. It’s not comfortable
4. It doesn’t match anything
If it doesn’t fit, does it just need some alterations? Or is it a size too small? If it needs alterations, get it done. If it’s too small, be honest about whether or not it’s ever going to fit. If you’ve been holding onto something for years in case you lose that extra weight, chances are it won’t look right when you do, as our bodies change and styles change. If it doesn’t fit and isn’t worth altering, give it away!
If it looks outdated, it probably is. You can try to pair the piece with something more current, but if it still feels unstylish, give it away.
If it’s not comfortable, you’ll never wear it, so it’s just taking up space. Give it away.
If it doesn’t match anything you have in your closet, set it aside for now.
Once you eliminate these items, you will have a better idea of what you’re working with each morning.
Lorraine Russo is a member of the Suffolk County, NY, Incubator, a fashion consultant, and the author of the book How to Make the Most of Your Wardrobe.
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This makes so much sense. I’m wondering why my closet and its collection of unsavories has left me so perplexed. I just sent this link to my Mary Kay unit. Thanks for the insights. I’m off to categorize…okay, maybe after I tuck the kids in for bed.
Karen Murphy
http://www.marykay.com/karenmurphy
Hi Lorraine:
I thought I was seeing double when I saw the title of your article as I am the author of Closet Control-The Ultimate Guide To Revitalizing Your Wardrobe and Revoltionizing The Way You Store It.
I want to commend all the personal stylists on Ladies Who Launch as I always say: Having a stylist is not just for the red carpet and the rich and famous. Outsource what you can’t or don’t have time to do.
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This was spot on for me with regards to my closet looking like I have more to wear then I really do. I just always felt good to have my clothes all on hangers. Which isn’t enough anymore as I have to remind myself.
It’s really hard for me to throw/give clothes away because I’m afraid the I REALLY won’t have anything to wear. Even though the truth is – I’ll still have the same amount of wearable clothes. I need to be brave – and part with my security blanket closet.
Thanks Lorraine! I’d love to know more, such as what you recommend we do with all those items that don’t match anything.
Just the other morning, I spent several hours in the early part of the morning, when most are sleeping, visiting, trying on and bagging 2 large bags of clothing. Off to the thrift store they will going as they help the community. My thinking was if ebay doesn’t want it to sell, then it’s good enough to part with. This has helped me part. Lots of my tossing is due to many lost pounds and inches. I don’t like big, baggy clothing when some call me “skinny” for the past year now. It is a choice, but lots of work keeping your newly formed body design “shapely.” Also, much easier when shopping for the bargains that only smaller sized people can fit into. No judgment as I recently found this out.
Now working on my “paper piles” is another story, but going down.
Carol
Aspiring professional speaker/writer without website